Promiscuity
Hello readers,
This topic is at a peak in our society. We do little about it or we don’t talk about it, how often do we realize it effect on our personal life.
From the root of the matter; why getting involved with someone whom you barely have strong feelings for, someone you are not proud of, someone that does everything wrongly around, someone you regard sexually unfit for you, a mere partner or a benefactor sometimes it is titled a “Figure Head”. Many of negative thought, negative opinions we can think of.
Marriages are failing because of this, people are dying.
Boys will always be boys, men are naturally promiscuous
These sayings are not meant to create wrong doings. It is a gender segregation, that is what I call it. What do we say to ladies whose level of promiscuousness is at the peak.
Aren’t we all victims of our actions. We lacked a standard of selection in our single life, we discriminate our partner for selfish reasons and we are looking for someone to soothe our satisfaction hereby, causing us to become a failure with our constructed obstacles.
We create our own obstacles, you can’t be faithful to your spouse and to your mistress or master out there. You create enemies, you are not balanced inwardly, you are obstructed with a whole lot of choices because you started it when you chose to cheat.
What do we derive doing this things. He doesn’t satisfy you in bed? help him to become better; teach him. There are sex enhancer and specialist out there. Don’t feel shy to talk about your sexual life and it’s shortcomings with your spouse.
She doesn’t stimulate me, her dress senses are dead, she became less active after our second child, she doesn’t look appealing anymore.
Uncle, do more in her dressing. I know it could be tiring but she is your wife, get her your desired clothing and make it mandatory. Child bearing could make one get lazy but with your help it can only get better. If she is not stimulating you, “oga” stimulate her.
There are sacrifices we render for the fun of it. Be firm on what you want her to look like, those girls out there aren’t better than her. When they get into her condition, they could be worse.
If you both do not see yourself working it out. You have lost it, you failed your self to hold on to an everlasting promise.
It is really absurd, Uncle got married few months back and he’s hitting on this lady that owns a boutique close to his office complex. Bro. Why? Your pretty wife is yet to get out of shock from the messages she received from your ex on Facebook. Yeah, we know you are handsome and your cuteness could melt a woman’s feeling but do your consider how many guys are waiting for your ‘fuck-up’ so they can own your wife?
Every creature has admirers no matter the level of their ugliness. Don’t be too full of epistle, she has a lot of admirers too.
Our relationship in marriage should be friendly, friendly to the extreme. This friendship doesn’t occur if not built. And except you initiated it before saying “I do” or before popping the questions, it might be difficult when you are married.
A third party is not an option, if you can’t dissolve your problems as man and wife, who will? Who lives in your home aside from you both.
Get your power button back, those things you did at the inception of your relationship should keep you moving if you don’t stop them.
We know what is right yet we fail to do them.
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